I volunteered for things. I want to work, learn skills and embrace my being. I wanted to say yes to everything that would come my way. Challenges and changes pushes a person to grow and become independent, for come what may. Does that sound perfect ? Does it work always ? Shall we trust it blindly, irrespective of what you feel ? I say yes to everything I can. I do whatever it takes , to do whatever is possible to happen, with my contribution to it. I feel good after it. I feel worth it, for the achievement, for the rewards and regards. And for the same reasons, many times I feel I do get dumped with work, which needs to be refused. I have faced it myself and have dumped it further as well. Not fair, I know. I realised it today too. Refusal is hard. Setting boundaries even harder. I think about the forces present on the head of dumper that made the whole thing to happen. How to solve it, I don't know. How to set boundaries, I don't know. Which decision is correct...